Episode 49 –  The Secrets of Winning With People – Rommel Anacan

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Say what you meanmean what you saybut don’t say it mean.”

Episode 49 features guest Rommel Anacan – an expert in helping people create relationships that celebrate their INFLUENCE and IMPACT!  Check out our podcast to learn easy tips on how you too can harness the power of human connection to achieve the success you desire!

  • :41 – Meet Rommel – Speaker. Strategist. Consultant. Coach. Writer.  
  • 2:52 – In the beginning – It can take being blindsided by a significant change to realize your communication skills need improvement.
  • 3:41 – Lesson learned – You may cry, but you will also gain the confidence to begin to reframe some things in your life for the good. 
  • 4:30 – Becoming a leader – After you learn to use these skills then you can start to train others on how to connect and communicate
  • 5:32 – Oblivious – Most people aren’t aware of their lacking communication skills.  We take assessment tests, but those just help us see the difference between ourselves and others – they don’t make us aware that we may be part of the problem.
  • 6:55 – Ah-ha moment – This moment usually comes when something bad happens, a discouragement, or a disappointment that shifts your world and makes you aware of your impact on people (both positive and negative).
  • 8:10 – Different people are triggered by different things.  
  • 10:05 – Communication is something we actually need to work on – stop the “it’s them, not me” cycle.
  • 11:01 – Tips to start – Do a deep dive. 
  • 11:50 – Grow & Go – the path to where you want to go is paved by how much you want to grow 
  • 12:09 – Maximize your positive impact and minimize your negative impact.
  • 12:15 – You know what to do – just pause and listen to yourself.
  • 13:12 – Ponder this – If someone were stuck in a car with you for 8 hours what would your impact on them be? 
  • 14:08 – Start your growth journey – It’s going to be messy, awkward, and weird at times, but it will be worth it.
  • 14:20 – The power of 1 – You can trigger change by taking steps forward.  
  • 15:45 – As you grow, they grow.
  • 16:34 – Assume good intentions
  • 17:50 – Be internally & externally aware – know what you bring to the party and pay attention to the signs people give you
  • 19:28 – If what you are doing isn’t working, then do something different 
  • 19:53 – Be authentic 

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